"It's hard enough trying to interpret what a girl is saying — let alone when she's using pigs and cacti and pink high heels in a message to me. "Though Joe, 31, agrees with the unwritten emjoi limit, he says that it's more the waiting game that really turns him off. I'm not sure what I’m doing later — or what I'm doing on Sunday morning for brunch. "I don't know what you're saying, but I'm pretty sure 99 percent of the time you can wait for my response."For Chris, 29, the rule is similar, but simpler: do unto others as you'd want done to you. They're nervous, they over-analyze and they definitely ask their friends if they should respond right away — or make you sweat it out a bit."I don't like to say much in text messages," Phil, 28 says. just enough to keep them interested without giving away too much. I'm more likely to share things about myself and ask more personal questions in a text."When a girl takes forever to respond to a text it makes it really complicated to tell if she's into me or just trying to be nice by responding — or if she's playing hard to get."He adds, "Sometimes, I've honestly thought that maybe a girl already had a boyfriend because it took her hours to respond to the messages I was sending her. QUESTIONS."Angry Gif For Ryan, 27, it's the 21 Questions game. He says, "Personally, I never send four texts in a row. And I think I'd be really annoyed if someone sent me that many texts without giving me the opportunity to respond first."Evan, 24, says that the limit is lucky number three. Here's the thing: If I'm not answering the first text, take that as a hint. I'm shy, so being able to hide behind the phone a little bit helps me.If he gets upset and stroppy with you, this should send alarm bells ringing.Think about it: Why might a guy get angry when you tell him you want to wait another couple of dates before jumping into bed?Never empty your glass – You might be shaking like a leaf and nothing would settle your nerves more than to knock back the glass of wine on your table, but trust me, it’s not worth it.If you want to stay in control of the date and keep him interested then take it easy and don’t overindulge.Plus, I'm not ready for a big commitment and I don't want to give off the wrong message by texting a girl all day long.
Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction.Because once you see sex as the only card you can play, he’ll notice that and then guess what?